What to do if parents find out their child refuse to go to school after being at day care for some period?

6.上学一段时间后,孩子不愿上学,妈妈该怎么办?

 

因为孩子上学一段时间后对所有新奇的玩具都不再感兴趣了,而且会发现在学校要守很多纪律,并不是在家里那样自由自再了,所以常常一个阶段后就会厌倦上学。这时候父母和学校两方面都要同时给予开导,要鼓励孩子在学校交上好朋友,老师在学校也要从中帮忙;要孩子多参加集体活动,让他做做小班长小领导,从中增强他的自信心,让他对学校的生活多感兴趣。父母在家也要和他多聊聊学校里的事情同学,告诉他上学的好处,不用多久情况就会改善的。

The major reason why child gets tired of school after some period is that the child's enthusiasm towards the new environment has been calmed down, new toys can no longer draw his attention; moreover, he finds out there are many rules to obey in the school which he does not have unlimited freedom like what he does at home. At this moment, parents and school should educate and enlighten the child simultaneously , encouraging the child to make new friends at school. At school, teachers will help by encouraging the child to participate more in group activities, building up more confidence by delegating the child to be a small group leader (a class monitor), helping him to find out the interest points in school life. At home, parents should also ask the child to talk about any interesting events happening in the school every day, telling the child about the benefits of going to school, and the child will soon shows his enthusiasm about going to school again.