Why do children always  lose their tempers over their mother?

17. 为什么孩子总爱对妈妈发脾气呢?

妈妈在宝宝心中的地位是无可替代的,宝宝对妈妈的情感依赖也是特别强烈。一般来说孩子在遇到问题解决不了或心里受到委屈的时候,首先想到的是妈妈,这些我们心里都非常清楚。所以,作为妈妈我们要把这个尺度掌握好,要让孩子知道除了妈妈是世界上最爱他的人以外,还有其他的人都非常爱他,还有爸爸、爷爷、奶奶、老师、同学等等。别让孩子把情感过分依赖在妈妈身上,因为有时候过分的情感依赖会变成发泄脾气的对象,养成习惯以后妈妈会很难教育孩子,在孩子遇到问题的时候不能只是一面的呵护,要让他知道妈妈不是他的"保护伞"而是他的"指南针"。

Mother plays an irreplaceable role in child development, thus children usually show an extremely strong emotional dependence over their mothers. Generally speaking, we all know that whenever children are upset, in trouble, or seeking for help, the image of mother will come to children first. Therefore, mothers should be aware that they need to let their child know that there are still many people other than her like father, grandparents, teachers and friends love him too. Mother should avoid the situation that her child get too emotionally dependent on her, since extreme dependence will turn mothers into their child's doormat; if the child develops a habit of losing temper over his mother whenever he is unsatisfied, it will be extremely hard for mother to educate her child in the future. It is not wise to blindly spoil the child whenever the child gets into trouble or feel unsatisfied, and mother should let her child view her a compass who can guide the child wisely instead of an umbrella the child can hide under whenever they are in trouble.